TMI Tuesday - First Week of December

Getting to know a little more about me...

1. Do you consider sexy underthings a present for you or your partner?
It's a gift for both of us. Wearing it would make me feel even sexier when I'm with him which serves a purpose for me and if he gets a kick out of seeing me in it well, there you go. A win-win in my book.

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"? Have you best relationship(s) been been with your type or when you have gone against it?
I don't have much of a type. I've been with all sorts of guys. I like guys who can make me laugh and for the most part I have kept to that. If I had to pinpoint a "type" it would be someone who could be my friend as well as a lover. Loyal, trustworthy, someone who's concerned with all aspects of my well being, and knows how to have fun. Someone who's willing and looking to share new things with me, both inside and outside of the bedroom. And someone who is comfortable with himself.

I'd have to say my best relationships have been with guys who may exhibit 1 or 2 of the things I like in a man. None of them has ever had it all. I'm still holding out for him.

3. What is on your Santa list this year?
Actually, the first thing that popped into my head was a threesome, with 2 guys. I guess that's been on my mind a lot lately. Who knows, maybe it'll happen soon. I'd also like a particular beauty and skin care gift set. Money's always on the list. I'd like a new cell phone and realistic dildo. Oh, and more sex! I think that's about it. (I'd like to see what's on some of your Santa lists. Leave some comments letting me know.)

4. Generally speaking, who has historically had a higher libido, you or your partner(s)?
So far, it's been my partners with the higher libido. Sex is fun and can be really, really intense, but when I don't get any I'm not climbing the walls. Plus I'm not used to having sex on a regular basis. I think if I did have sex more often my appetite would grow.

5. The unsculptured female bush seems to have passed from fashion. What about men, do you think they need to trim and shave "down there"?
Absolutely! I've given oral sex to trimmed and untrimmed guys and I have to say licking and sucking hairless balls is a lot better.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?
Books! I love reading. I think I should get paid to read, really.
Pictures - be they of friends, family, nature. I love pictures and being able to look at them to reminisce and rekindle memories.
Kisses have to go on the list. I love kissing- long and slow, short and sweet, I love them all.
The computer - because along with email etc., I can use it to read, look at pictures and to read and write about kissing on it. It's like all my favorites combined.

Scratching & Clawing Her Way To Orgasm

Hands and their gestures tell a story, especially during sex.

Here's a moment that stood out for me.

One night I was having sex with Daria while my beloved wife, Alyssa, laid next to us. Alyssa looked on as I was having my way with the young lass.

I noticed Daria's right hand clenching and flexing as if shaking off some numbness. I think she was in between orgasms. Her left hand though, was in search of something to grab, perhaps a fistful of bedsheets. Stimulated by my slow rhythmic thrusts, Daria could take no more. She reached out and got a firm hold of Alyssa's thigh.

Alyssa was ensnared in our lustful act as Daria scratched and squeezed her sharp nails into soft skin. Alyssa tensed up, bit down on her lip but did not pull away.

It lasted mere moments, but I found it curious and wondered about the girls.

A few questions came to mind:

Did Daria purposely dig her nails into Alyssa or was she not consciously aware of her actions? Was Daria reacting to the intense pleasure or sending a message? Was I indirectly pleasuring Alyssa through Daria or was I hurting her? All...or none of the above?

During sex Daria tends to moan and though a bit shy can get quite feisty. However, she denies the scratching was intentional and felt bad to have hurt Alyssa.

Alyssa later admitted, it hurt, though in a pleasurable way. For Alyssa, Daria's piercing nails served to gauge how hard I was fucking her. I guess the wife felt the need to know such things. Her skin healed in a few days.

The girls didn't make much fuss of it, but for me it was a deliciously decadent moment. Whenever it comes to mind I shake my head a little and smile.

Twice the Taboo, Double the Fun

Another couple of months had gone by before Vic, Alyssa and I had another "date". I told my roommate where I was going and she told me to have fun and be safe. I hopped on the train on that warm October evening almost giddy about seeing my friends. They greeted me at the door, Vic with a kiss and Alyssa with a hug. We got comfy in the living room with drinks and small talk. Soon we were watching Taboo 2, the sequel to the porn we'd watched at our last get-together. This was even steamier than the first one. The daisy chain scene was one of my favorites. We were all getting hot and bothered. Vic got so turned on his cock jumped and knocked the remote off his lap. Before too long we'd eased into their bedroom.

The females took the lead this time. Us girls stripped Vic that weekend. He and I kissed while Alyssa pulled off his shorts. Then I pulled off his shirt. Vic took turns kissing and touching us or kissing one while caressing the other. I love how our sessions always begin with lots of oral play. I love kissing and Vic does as well. He says he's addicted to my lips. And over the course of our adventures I've learned that I really enjoy kissing Alyssa as well. I doubt it will ever lose that "taboo" thrill.

I was the more "aggressive" one, as Victor pointed out. I initiated all that took place between Alyssa and I. I started rubbing and stroking her breasts and arms. I leaned over, placed my hand on her jaw to turn her face towards me, leading into our first kiss of the night. These same fingers I'm now typing with were used to pleasure Alyssa's pussy. I touched and rubbed her clit after Vic placed my hand there. He said she opened her legs more and seemed to get wetter after I did. I think he had something to do with that though - not solely my finger... We continued to kiss slowly as Victor lined up his cock and pressed into Alyssa.

While they sexed I watched, touching them both, kissing them both, almost as if we were all having sex with each other. The rhythm changed and Alyssa's cries became louder and more frequent. Her high squeals rang in my ears as she came and Vic slowed down on top of her. Then as if we were playing tag, it was my turn. I was it.

TMI Tuesday

I'm working on more posts, but while you're waiting here's a little something. Feel free to comment me with your own questions if you have any.


1. What is your favorite Thanksgiving food?
If I absolutely had to pick one, it'd probably be my mom's sweet potato pie. I could eat it for days afterward. In fact it's usually what I have for breakfast the next day.


2. You can flip a switch that will wipe any band or musical artist out of existence. Which one will it be?
I have no idea. I've never thought about it or hated a musician so much I would wish them out of existence.


3. You seem to be having an excellent day because you just came across a hundred-dollar bill on the sidewalk. Holy crap, a hundred bucks! How are you gonna spend it?
Hmm... a hundred bucks. Right now I'd probably spend it on my nephews and nieces' Christmas gifts. Legos and Barbies are not as cheap as they used to be. Another time of year I'd probably treat myself to some really nice beauty products.


4. What is your favorite curse word?
You might be surprised to hear it, but I actually don't use profanity. It was drilled into me as a kid and as I got older I never felt the need to use it. Guess that might seem boring to some, but hey that's me.


5. Rufus appears out of nowhere with a time-traveling phone booth. You can go anytime in the PAST. What time are you traveling to and what are you going to do when you get there?
Ok maybe I missed something, but who's Rufus? Oh, Bill and Ted's Rufus! (A little slow on the uptake sometimes.) I would probably go to the midwest in the 19th Century. After reading about it when I was young I was intrigued by how they lived, and thankful that I wasn't born in that time period. But it might be fun to visit.


Bonus (as in optional):You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what's even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of your choice! What's it gonna be?
I guess that would depend on if I'm the only one who ate them. If I was, then my power would be probably be a controllable Midas touch. I could turn it on and off at whim, filling my house and lining my bank account with gold. If other people ate the radioactive veggies, my power would be to absorb their powers, like Peter Petrelli (Heroes!).

TMI Tuesday

I decided to take a page out of a couple of blogs I've been following and answer TMI (Too Much Information) Tuesday questions. Not sure how interesting you'll find them, I guess it depends on the questions given. And if you have any questions you'd like answered, leave a comment. I'd love to read them and I'll be sure to answer.


1. When did you last use your cellular telephone as a flashlight?
Last night, actually, in my bedroom. I didn't feel like turning on the light just to turn it off again after undressing.

2. On a scale from 1-10, how comfy are you being naked? Alone, about an 7.5. When I'm engaging in naked activities with others, I'd say about the same, maybe a 7. I know there are things I could do to better my body but it's not too huge an issue for me. And once we're involved in a hot, steamy session, I'm not thinking about how my body looks as much as how it feels.

3. What is the longest you've ever been celibate after having lost your virginity?
I think somewhere around 6 months. I started getting really antsy about 3.5 to 4 months in, but after about 3 weeks I got over it and it didn't bother me as much. But it definitely felt great breaking the "fast".

4. Have you ever had sex in a car? If yes, since you were a teenager? I've never had sex in a car. Unless you want to count oral sex. That I have done in a car, about 3 years ago, so I wasn't a teen. I haven't had sex outside of the house, not yet anyway. As far as having sex in unusual places, anyone have some in mind? Please feel free to let me know.

5. When did you last use food or drink as medication?
Yesterday and the drug of choice was Peanut M&M's. Nothing like chocolate intoxication.

No bonus question this week. Maybe next time...